The opposite of love is not hate but indifference.

While out walking i think more, walking stretches my thoughts. I think on love and its true meaning. Love, not to be mistaken for lust, lust is just a few moments of pleasure. Being In love not to be confused with infatuation or ownership.There are various types of love, love for your partner, love for a child, parents, friends. What about love for your self your inner being. In this fast paced world where life decisions are made at a push of a button where a smile is a yellow sticker, the words fab, wow, amazing, are so over used (and are not to be taken seriously)  they have no meaning or substance. When did you last walk out in the elements not on the Wii. When did you last stand still and feel the world around you where your hands were free hanging loosely not attached to a phone, ipad, computer. Your thoughts ebb and flow, your breathing mirroring your thinking, listen to your body, the gut instinct what is it telling you? From my experience of my life it is paramount to love yourself first before you can reach out to others. Forgiveness is one step of loving yourself. You can not live in the past but you can learn from it, you can not live in future fore it is not here yet but you can live in the now. Never wish harm on others, let go of what you perceive pain to be jealousy, hate, envy, they are a waste of your health, time and your precious energy. Balling your eyes out is good, for tears are for healing, taking control of your life never use the word blame. Do not become a prisoner to magazines that make you feel ugly never let anyone walk their dirt through your mind. When you look in the mirror smile, a real smile and love what you see do not lose sight of what is you, blind yourself to what others perceive you to be.


Love for this earth, nature and your fellow human being. If UKIP, who i call the indifferent party gain anymore power it will destroy the UK. We are all equal, we all suffer pain, we shed tears, our blood is red and we all have one certainty we will all die one day. We need peace and harmony on this beautiful blue planet that is hurling its way to infinity, you might think i am being twee no i am being realistic. The 1st WW did nothing for humanity they said it would end all wars, no it was lie, wars still happen. The working class are still used as cannon fodder by those who should no better, they disguise the true meaning of invading, killing and maiming others and call it a Career. Planting wild flowers in your garden will help bees, butterflies, birds. Growing your own veg is not rocket science, and is healthy for you. I do lots for charity it is so rewarding and i feel better has a person we should all give time to those in need. Use your time well do not waste it on materialism, fears that you created in your own head. Time is precious be wise where you give your time be even wiser in where you place your love. Indifference is racism, hate, greed, famine, wars and poverty. The world is not a colour or a religion, your inner beauty is not reflected from how much money you have or the size of your home, your fake tan, the whitening of your teeth how fast you drive your car, expressing your hate on FB, twitter and the like, judging others and listening to reply not to understand. Inner beauty shines from within, comes out in kindness, understanding, patience and acceptance, it stems from love.



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